Navigating Life with COPD: A Journey of Persistence
- Ofer Goren
- Jul 12
- 3 min read
Updated: Aug 11
Understanding the Struggles I spend a fair amount of time reading about other patients. I dive into stories of those battling COPD, heart disease, cancer, kidney disease, and even those who have undergone transplants. Sometimes, I come across astonishing combinations. For instance, someone might have severe COPD, diabetes, heart failure, and high blood pressure, taking enough medication to qualify as a small pharmacy. As I read their stories, I often find myself wondering: How do they do it? Not medically. I understand the medicine—at least enough to be dangerous. I mean psychologically. What gets them out of bed each day? What convinces them to schedule the next appointment? To refill that next prescription? To keep exercising, even when it feels suspiciously like punishment? Honestly, I don't know. The older I get, the less convinced I am that there is a single answer. The Reality of Courage People like to talk about courage. I’m skeptical. Most patients I’ve met aren’t trying to be courageous. They’re just trying to get through Tuesday. Or maybe Wednesday, if things go particularly well. Maybe that’s the secret. Nobody is carrying the whole burden. They’re just carrying today’s burden. Tomorrow’s problems remain tomorrow’s problems until tomorrow arrives. It’s an efficient system—annoying, but efficient. Reflecting on My Blog Sometimes I wonder about this blog. Not whether it helps people—that’s impossible to know. The internet is full of people claiming to change lives, and most of them are selling something. I’m not. What I do wonder is whether reading about someone else’s experience makes any difference at all. Maybe someone reads these posts and feels less alone. Perhaps they think, “This guy complains less than I do.” Or maybe they conclude they should stop complaining because things could be worse. I wouldn’t recommend that, by the way. Complaining is one of the few remaining pleasures not yet regulated by the medical profession. Finding Connection in Shared Experiences Or maybe none of that happens. Perhaps people simply recognize a piece of their own story. The frustration. The isolation. The endless calculations. The strange fact that a good day can be ruined by a blood test, while a bad day can be rescued by a grandchild. I don’t know. What I do know is that serious illness has made me much less interested in motivation. Motivation comes and goes. I’ve watched entire treatment plans survive long after motivation disappeared. The Power of Persistence What interests me now is persistence. It’s the quiet decision to continue. The next pill. The next walk. The next appointment. The next morning. Not because someone is hopeful. Not because someone is brave. Just because that’s what comes next. Maybe that’s what keeps them going. Embracing Each Day Each day is a new opportunity. It’s a chance to take a breath, to step outside, and to feel the sun on my face. I remind myself that even small victories matter. Maybe it’s just getting out of bed or taking a few steps. Those moments count. I’ve learned to cherish the little things. A warm cup of tea. A chat with a friend. Watching the leaves change color in the fall. These simple pleasures remind me that life is still beautiful, even amidst the challenges. Building a Supportive Community I believe in the power of community. Sharing experiences can be a lifeline. It helps us feel connected. We can lean on each other during tough times. We can celebrate the victories, no matter how small they may seem. I encourage you to reach out. Connect with others who understand your journey. Share your story. You never know who might need to hear it. Conclusion: A Journey Together In this journey, we are not alone. We carry our burdens, but we also share our joys. Together, we can navigate the ups and downs of living with COPD. Let’s embrace persistence. Let’s find strength in our shared experiences. And let’s continue to support one another, one day at a time. Remember, it’s okay to complain sometimes. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed. But it’s also important to recognize the moments of joy. Let’s keep moving forward, together.




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